{"id":8560,"date":"2021-03-11T10:09:28","date_gmt":"2021-03-11T18:09:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/?p=8560"},"modified":"2025-07-03T22:40:46","modified_gmt":"2025-07-04T05:40:46","slug":"slowing-down-and-getting-back-to-basics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/slowing-down-and-getting-back-to-basics\/","title":{"rendered":"Slowing Down and Getting Back to Basics"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 data-fontsize=\"29\" data-lineheight=\"34\">Between the Lines: Stories of Brain Injury Survivors \u2013 (Part 5 of 6)<\/h2>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/survivors-stories\/stroke-awareness-saves-lives\/attachment\/tony-insight-cards-04\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8445\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-8445\" src=\"http:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Tony-Insight-Cards-04.png\" alt=\"trees and ocean\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Tony-Insight-Cards-04.png 1000w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Tony-Insight-Cards-04-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Tony-Insight-Cards-04-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Tony-Insight-Cards-04-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Tony-Insight-Cards-04-980x980.png 980w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Tony-Insight-Cards-04-480x480.png 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>This is the fifth post in <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Between the Lines: Stories of Brain Injury Survivors<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you missed the beginning of Tony\u2019s Journey, <strong>click <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/survivors-stories\/between-the-lines-stories-of-brain-injury-survivors\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a> to read it<\/strong>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before his first stroke, Tony was a busy guy. As a husband and father of two, Tony spent his days driving his kids to sports practice, cooking for the family, and in general being a pretty involved family man&#8211;on top of working a fast-paced full-time job.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the stroke happened, all of that came to a stop. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During the weeks, months, and years after his first stroke, Tony learned to accept that his life had radically changed. As a brain injury survivor, he had to slow down and get back to basics to continue his recovery. This meant focusing on his mental health, his blood pressure, and his overall well-being so as not to trigger another stroke.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While sometimes another stroke can come out of nowhere&#8211;as was the case with his second stroke, 11 years after the first&#8211;there were things Tony could do to manage his health and lower his risk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One key part of managing his health was practicing <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/healthy-lifestyle\/consumer-health\/in-depth\/mindfulness-exercises\/art-20046356\"><b>mindfulness<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a number of ways to practice mindfulness, and for brain injury survivors, it\u2019s important to find what works best for you. One person might take time to practice meditation to quiet the mind; another might choose to spend time in nature. For others, practicing mindfulness might be trying to be fully present with their daily tasks, whether that\u2019s washing the dishes, folding laundry, or eating a meal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/survivors-stories\/slowing-down-and-getting-back-to-basics\/attachment\/tony-gardening\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8565\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-8565\" src=\"http:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"man standing by a sunflower\" width=\"250\" height=\"444\" srcset=\"https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-1152x2048.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-1080x1920.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-980x1742.jpg 980w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening-480x853.jpg 480w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Tony-gardening.jpg 1242w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a>Practicing mindfulness helped Tony cope with life after stroke. For Tony, mindfulness means being fully aware of where he is and what he\u2019s doing. It\u2019s making little mental notes to check if there\u2019s pain or issues that, pre-stroke, he would have brushed off. Mindfulness is a physical act, too&#8211;when he\u2019s looking to centre himself, he finds peace being outside. Over the years, Tony\u2019s backyard garden became his mindfulness sanctuary. It\u2019s a place he can spend quiet time with his thoughts while reconnecting nature.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/survivors-stories\/slowing-down-and-getting-back-to-basics\/attachment\/ride-to-conquer-cancer-tony2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8566\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8566 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Ride-to-Conquer-Cancer-Tony2-300x225.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Ride-to-Conquer-Cancer-Tony2-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Ride-to-Conquer-Cancer-Tony2-510x382.png 510w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Ride-to-Conquer-Cancer-Tony2-480x360.png 480w, https:\/\/messageinabottle.ca\/bcbia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Ride-to-Conquer-Cancer-Tony2.png 604w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Mindfulness is also what helped him achieve one of the biggest accomplishments of his life: in 2013, four years after his first stroke, Tony completed the Ride to Conquer. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMindfulness helped me understand pain and how to manage it. It was about learning how to push myself while riding, while staying within my boundaries. That was the key to success,\u201d says Tony.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mindfulness is an important piece in anyone\u2019s health toolkit, but it\u2019s especially helpful for brain injury survivors. Even if you\u2019re far along in your recovery, practicing mindfulness can help you overcome difficult challenges by bringing awareness to the present moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The way Tony practices mindfulness might be different from how you would. That\u2019s because mindfulness is a unique practice for everyone. To learn more about mindfulness and learn how to harness its power, we\u2019ve collected a few resources to get you started on your journey.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can find mindfulness resources workshops on Brainstreams:<\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/learn\/healing-brain\/#Guided-Breathing-Videos\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Guided Breathing Videos<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.brainstreams.ca\/learn\/living-life\/healthy-living\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tips on healthy living<\/a> for brain injury recovery<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Mindfulness resources and workshops for stroke and brain injury survivors:<\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mindfulconcussion.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mindful Concussion<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> workshops\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/watsonbrainhealth.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watson Centre for Brain Health<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; hosts mindfulness workshops for BI survivors<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bcalm.ca\/resources\/provincial-resources\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">B Calm: BC Association for Living Mindfully<\/a> &#8211; provincial resource list<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Next week we\u2019ll publish the final post in Tony\u2019s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Between the Lines<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> series. In our last post, we\u2019ll talk about how Tony leaned into his passions to find purpose, and share resources for brain injury survivors who want to connect with social and volunteer opportunities in their community.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Between the Lines: Stories of Brain Injury Survivors \u2013 (Part 5 of 6) This is the fifth post in Between the Lines: Stories of Brain Injury Survivors. 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